Thursday, November 28, 2013

Grow More In The Lord: Helping Others Know Jesus

Women's Bible Study - Helping Others Know Jesus
November 21/13




"The Spirit of the Lord is on me, because he has anointed me 
To preach good news to the poor; 
He has sent me to heal the brokenhearted,
To proclaim freedom for the prisoners, 
To recover the sight of the blind, 
To release the oppressed and proclaim the year of the Lord's favor." Luke 4:18-19 (NKJV)


Many of us do not know if we can be a Servant of Christ. What is it to serve? You know you can be a servant when you look at how you respond to someone treating you like a servant.
Do you have a servant's heart? Do you give your time and yourself to helping others when you can, because you can, or because you feel you have to?
Keep in Mind:  Jesus is asking us to do what He, Himself did when He was on Earth.

POINT TO PONDER:

I serve God by serving others.

“If you give even a cup of cold water to one of the least of my followers, you will surely be rewarded.” 
MATTHEW 10:42 (NLT)


A popular phrase today is 'Servant Leader'. Is this because of the human ego? When we declare ourselves a leader are we not expecting others to serve us?  God doesn't care what label we put on it; he just wants us to serve with our heart.
The more you serve the more God pours His blessings into your life.

The first step to bringing others to Jesus is getting baptized yourself. Not only is it a commandment in the bible, its also His wish that we declare publicly that as an adult we choose to follow Jesus and wish all who see us, to know we choose Jesus (and God).

The second step: God wants us to have connection with Him on the first day of every week. Sunday.  So we can be guided into our next week with a strong foothold.

Jesus read the prophecy of himself (the Messiah is coming one day) from the scroll of:
  • anointed me to preach good news to the poor
  • sent me to heal the broken-hearted
  • to proclaim freedom for the prisoner
  • to recover the sight of the blind
  • to release the oppressed and proclaim the year of the Lord's favour

The third step: How can you know if you have the heart of a servant? Jesus said, "You can tell what they are by what they do."

1. Real servants make themselves available to serve.
When God calls upon us for an act of service, do we grumble? Do we reject it, saying that our schedule is already filled to the brim? Real servants don't fill up their time with other pursuits that could limit their availability. Just like a soldier, a servant should be ready for duty anytime. Are we available to God anytime? Can he mess up our plans without becoming resentful?
Let's remind ourselves at the start of each day that we are God's servant, so that interruptions won't frustrate us as much, because our agenda will be whatever God wants to bring into our life.

2. Real servants pay attention to needs.
Servants are always on the lookout for ways to help others. John Wesley, an incredible servant of God, once said, "Do all the good you can, by all the means you can, in all the places you can, at all times you can, to all the people you can, as long as you ever can.  "That is greatness.
We can begin by looking for small tasks that no one else wants to do. (yes, even cleaning the church toilet)

3. Real servants do their best with what they have.
Servants don't make excuses, procrastinate, or wait for better circumstances. God expects you to do what you can, with what you have, wherever you are. Less-than perfect service is always better than the best intention.
One reason many people never serve is that they fear they are not good enough to serve. Well, the truth is, almost everything we do is done poorly when we first start doing it - that's how we learn.

4. Real servants do every task with equal dedication.
As servants, whatever we do, do it with all our hearts.. The size of the task is irrelevant. The only issue is, does it need to be done?
You will never arrive at the state in life where you're too important to help with menial tasks. Jesus specialized in menial tasks that everyone else tried to avoid: washing feet, helping children, fixing breakfast, and serving lepers. Nothing was beneath him, because he came to serve. It wasn't in spite of his greatness that he did these things, but because of it. And he expects us to follow his examples.

5. Real servants are faithful to their ministry.
Servants finish their tasks, fulfill their responsibilities, keep their promises, and complete their commitments. They don't leave a job half undone, and they don't quit when they get discouraged. They are trustworthy and dependable.
Faithfulness has always been a rare quality. Most people don't know the meaning of commitment. They make commitments casually, then break them for the slightest reason without any hesitation, remorse, or regret. Every week, churches and other organizations must improvise because volunteers didn't prepare, didn't show up, or didn't even call to say they weren't coming.
Can we be on counted by others? Are there promises we need to keep, vows we need to fulfill, or commitments we need to honour? God is testing our faithfulness. Imagine what it will feel like one day to have God say to you, "Well done, my good and faithful servant. You have been faithful in handling this small amount, so now I will give you many more responsibilities. Let's celebrate together!"
Faithful servants never retire. They serve faithfully as long as they're alive. You can retire from your career, but you will never retire from serving God.

6. Real servants maintain a low profile.
Servants don't promote or call attention to themselves. Instead of acting to impress and dressing for success, they "put on the apron of humility, to serve one another." If recognized for their service, they humbly accept it but don't allow notoriety to distract them from their work.
Serving in order to impress people with how spiritual we are, is the sin of the Pharisees. They turned helping others, giving, and even prayer into a performance for others. Jesus hated this attitude and warned, "When you do good deeds, don't try to show off. If you do, you won't get a reward from your Father in heaven."
In our bodies, we have several prominent parts that we could live without. Most people could go on living without an arm, a leg, or even an eye, but nobody could live without a brain, or a heart. It is the hidden parts inside our bodies that are significant.
Knowing this, let's not be discouraged when our service is unnoticed or taken for granted. Keep on serving God! Even the smallest service is noticed by God and will be rewarded. Remember the words of Jesus: "If, as my representatives, you give even a cup of cold water to a little child, you will be surely be rewarded."


Who Jesus came to help


"THE POOR"  
Types of poverty: The Have Nots of life.  There are times in our lives when we don't have what we need. i.e- time, energy, money, spiritual feeling.... There are times we are lacking.
·          Material poverty (have the world is living on $2 a day - North America is very rich in comparison (Mother Teresa and the banana)
·          Moral poverty - lack of integrity or knowledge of right and wrong or just want to do what's easiest or best for you
·          spiritual poverty - don't know what God has planned for your life. So many don't know how much God loves them


"THE BROKENHEARTED"
The Let-down:  The term broken-hearted came from the bible - Psalm 69:20
there is the Broken-heart syndrome where a traumatic event will cause your own body to release a chemical that breaks down the tissue of your heart
·          disappointment- don't turn out how you planned
·          rejection - when you feel rejected by a loved one or someone you respect
·          resentment - holding a grudge, eats you alive


"THE IMPRISONED"
Types of prisons: 
·          addictions - and compulsions; substance, event, porn, relationship
·          secrets - you don't feel you can share or tell someone (James - confess to each other) revealing your feeling is the beginning of healing
·          ignorance - lack of education.  Half of the world cannot read or write. Bible talks about Jesus being a teacher and how He teaches us
·          fear - the bigger it gets the tighter your prison. Fear only gets bigger if you don't share
The Locked Up in their own life someway - sometimes resulting from being Broken-hearted


"THE BLIND"
Types of blindness: The shut out of life - don't get to experience what others see and do because of their prison
·          relational blindness - you don't see how you're messing up the relationship, and you don't see the self-defeating attitude. what the common denominator in those failed relationships? you!  Men can be clueless in this way...
·          spiritual - close our eyes to the goodness of God and attribute that good to ourselves; although blame God for all the bad things that happen
·          physical blindness - colour blind, night blind, total blindness


"THE OPPRESSED"
Types: The kicked around - by circumstances, taken advantage of, bullied, etc
·          political - refugees have been pushed out of their country. Those enslaved, this is not outlawed outside of North America. (c
·          cultural - depending on where we live. Asia has girls that go neglected, or infancide (the killing of first born baby girls), each year 2 million girls between 5 and 15 sold into sexual slavery or honour killing (husband or father thinks the wife or girl did something wrong against the family)
·          spiritual  - depressed, stressed, give it all up.  This is a gift from Satan to discourage you



"The year of JUBILEE"  - year of the Lord's favour - law in Leviticus -
·          God said he didn't want us to be work slaves (every 7 days take a day off for rest and worship- commandment).
·           Every 7th year let the land rest and take that year off (sabbatical - to recharge) -
·          every 50th year have a year of Jubilee; every debt cancelled, everyone in prison for debt or enslaved for debt is set free, the land returns to original owner.
He did this in honour of the promised land to let everyone realize that we don't actually own anything, its just on loan for however many years you are on this earth. Its like God evens the score for everyone.  But Israel never observed this so God.  So the served become the servants and the servants can redeem themselves.
"I have given you an example to follow. Now do as I have done to you." John 13:15 (NLT)

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Women's Bible Study - Helping Others Know Jesus
November 21/13- Worksheet


  1. Which of the six characteristics of a real servant offers the greatest challenge to me? ____________________________________________________________
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  1. How do I serve? __________________________________________________
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  1. How can we follow What Jesus came to do? List a person that shows you the following:
"Preach good news"

"Heal the broken-hearted"

"Proclaim freedom"

"Provide recovery of sight"

"Release the oppressed"

  1. Start with your own family today. Serve them as you can, when you can (without the resentment of 'getting taken advantage of').  Explain to the children why you are doing the laundry, cooking meals, volunteering outside of the home. Show them how to be a servant with a glad heart.  
  2. What 3 things will you do this week to kick-start your serving others?
  3. Share the good news of Jesus (with someone you know).
  4. Share that you are a Christian at work. Work it into a conversation.  Find that person around you that may be hurting others, they are hurting themselves and need your Love and serving.
  5. Remind yourself that Jesus is with you, everyday! Talk to God frequently every day- He will show you where you can serve or how to introduce Him to others.  Perfect Love of Christ casts out all fears. (the fear of embarrassment or rejection is caused by Satan and is worse than actually doing the deed we fear)
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THE P.E.A.C.E. PLAN: JESUS' STRATEGY
Promote reconciliation 
Equip servant leaders (pastor, volunteer coordinator)
Assist the poor
Care for the sick
Educate the next generation

God knows when we are weak and wants to help us to show others His Love!

"… I have become a servant of everyone so that I can bring them to Christ… When I am with those who follow Jewish laws, I do the same, even though I am not subject to the law, so that I can bring them to Christ. When I am with Gentiles… I fit in with them as much as I can… so I can bring them to Christ. But I do not discard the law of God; I obey the law of Christ. When I am with those who are oppressed, I share their oppression so that I might bring them to Christ. I try to find common ground with everyone so that I might bring them to Christ. I do all this for the sake of the Good News, and in doing so I enjoy its blessings."
1 Cor. 9:19-23 (NLT)



How are we going to help others know Jesus?
by growing into and showing a servants heart

Encouragement - Memory Verses
Isaiah 60:1-2


This lesson inspired by The Purpose Driven Life Day 33

Thursday, November 7, 2013

Women's Bible Study - Overcoming Guilt


Women's Bible Study - Overcoming Guilt
November 7/13

Today's world has so many over-expectations for women. We are needed to run the home, teach our families how to work together, perhaps we are the one in charge of the family finances, we need to help a sick friend, attend church, be a strong Christian and excel at our jobs (weather that is inside or outside of the home) and the list continues.

This can eat away at us and cause a troubled heart. What we need to do - and its hard for most of us - is to get over the "I'm not as good as _________" blues!
Gen 20:9

Or its the "Why Me?"
Jeremiah 51:5

Most of our guilt comes from comparing ourselves to someone else. It's time to get your eyes off the person you feel is 'in front of you' and start leading your own parade.
We know when we are sinning.
John 9:41

Definition: the fact of having committed a specified or implied offence or crime.

If we let it, guilt can cripple us, you end up not seeing the path God wants you to walk- Satan starts the questions "Why would God want me?  I'm not good enough to do ______, or be ________.  Satan is distracting us away from God's path.
Hebrews 12:1-3

In our Fear lesson we learned to stop asking "What If" and started saying "What Now?".  By doing this simple mind switch we can start becoming an open receptacle and to replace that guilt by letting God's love flow into us.
Romans 10:19

So many answers can be found in the Bible and it can be hard to know where to look. Try going to an online site such as BibleStudyTools.com. When you type in what you are searching for answers to, it can help you find reference verses to strengthen you.

A great way to get over guilt, take a 15 minute to a half hour break in your day to feed and nourish your soul. Listen to an uplifting podcast while your getting ready in the morning or driving to work. Start by reading Bible stories to your child, or grand children. There are also short daily devotional books or apps you can download on your phone or devices- read them on your bathroom break.

If you let guilt continue to have a foothold (and that includes using guilt to get your kids to do things) you will constantly feel something is missing or wrong.
John 16:8


10 Steps to overcome Guilt
  1. Realize that guilt is normal and we all have it.
  2. Think through why your actions made you feel guilty.
  3. Learn from those actions and promise to try not to repeat them. Realize we are all human, and this may not be possible, but make a personal promise to do better.
  4. Apologize to someone, if your actions hurt someone. This will help alleviate some of the guilt, and hopefully the hurt party will accept your apology.
  5. Take a lesson from the fictional character Scarlett O'Hara: "After all...tomorrow is another day." Realize each day is a new beginning filled with promise, hope and the opportunity to start over.
  6. Do not dwell on the actions that may have caused the guilt.
  7. Each time a guilty feeling arises, instead of wallowing in it, take one affirmative step. For example, if you feel guilty about having to file bankruptcy you can pay your electric bill the moment it arrives.
  8. Do a good deed. Helping others often helps the person who offers help.
  9. Seek medical assistance, if required. Excessive guilt could be part of a psychological or medical condition.
  10. See a trusted clergyman, priest or other religious figure. They can guide you when you do wrong, you have ultimately sinned against God, and the only way to be right with God and have your guilt removed is by a sacrifice being made.
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Women's Bible Study - Overcoming Guilt
Worksheet

1.     What can we combine with prayer to move past the Guilt?

  1. What is causing you guilt right now? 
    • Try to figure out why you feel guilty. Grab a pen and notebook, and write down a list of things that could be making you feel this way. It might be difficult, but eventually you will figure out what is making you guilty. If you can't figure it out, try this approach: Consider each thing on your list and imagine if you had not done it. If you immediately feel better or wistful, this is probably the thing which is making you guilty.
    • Rate your guilt. This might sound stupid, but it can really help. Out of ten, make two ratings: How bad the thing is that you've done, and how guilty you feel. After this, think about why what you did was bad, and why you feel guilty about it. This should hopefully leave your mind a little clearer, and allows you to think rationally about the source of the guilt.
    • Consider what you are going to do. If the guilt you feel is over something like being nasty to someone or neglecting a job or pet, feel reassured in the fact that you can do something about this. Write down what you're going to do, consider when and where, and take action. If your guilt is for something like a persons' death or a friend getting angry, acknowledge that it is not your fault, and it's natural to feel this way. Do something to relax and forget about it. It's not worth feeling guilty over insurmountable predicaments: nothing can be done and you will waste your life.
    • Once you get a better idea of why you feel guilty, don't run from it. If needed, you may seek help from friends you trust, pray, visit your pastor or elder or even professionals to shed some light on your situation. Chances are unless you have committed a serious crime you may have nothing to feel guilty about. In fact you may find out that someone else has been feeding you lies.
    • Learn to Forgive- the person that hurt you or forgive yourself for the pain you have been holding on to. It's the only way to go in order to achieve acceptance, which is a very important aspect of eliminating guilt.